Why is it that some people are pampered and get personal attention from Guruji and some don’t? I feel very low at times that Guruji dosent give me the same importance.
Answer: You need to choose what kind of mind do you want to have… a strong mind or a weak mind. If you become strong, HE will be present IN you, if you become weak, HE will be AROUND you. Minds that need to be stregnthened will be the ones who Guruji will put more attention on. All the swami’s, Rishi’s he dosen’t have to keep them close to HIM and they are always travelling spreading HIS knowledge. But those who need attention, will be next to him, for a limited time, he will stregnthen them and move them forward too. Only if YOU have a strong mind, YOU will be able to stregnthen others also.
Our mind should become such, that the last thing the Guru has to worry about is our mind. He should feel so confident, that even if one is insulted, humiliated or kicked out, he will remain grounded in faith and smile and can handle all the criticism with that strgnth and willingness to grow and learn.Weak minds will look for acknowledgement, praises, a smile, etc etc from the Guru and will be stuck in physical parameters. Stong minds will be in such a state of devotion that they feel HIS presence IN them at all times. He will have such confidence on strong minds that HE can simply send us anywhere knowing that we will continue to make a difference in this planet without anything affecting our enthusiasm.
So never feel low that he is not around you. If he is not around you that means he is IN you. This is a sign that you are a stong mind. So do you want Guruji to be AROUND or IN?
You know…we have to inculcate the ability to be so centred every moment because even one moment of lack of centredness can become a regret for the rest of our life. We have to work on being so so refined. Be more aware, more sadhana, more knowledge and certainly more Seva will stregnthen the mind!
What takes away our centredness and we feel weak?
People: Learn to Love those whom you dislike and love also those whom you think dislike you. This brings back your centredness.
Objects: Know that you are the source for the object to exist and associatian with the source has bigger joy then its off springs.
Circumstances: Know that everything is changing on this plannet. This will also pass and I will still be here, smiling.